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Mid-Career Crisis: Are You Doing What You Love to Do?

4/19/2023

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In recent months I have been focusing my posts on the process of transitioning from the world of work into a happy and fulfilling retirement--making your next chapter your best chapter. Last week a friend and former client asked me an interesting question: “Can you apply the principles/chapters of transitioning into retirement to any life/career transition?” And the answer is a whole-hearted YES!!

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Live Your best Life (CHAPTER 5)

1/28/2023

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This post is the fifth of a five-part series to give you a preview of the five chapters for leaving the world of work and creating a new life of meaning and purpose. Perhaps this brief overview will help you along the way if you are considering shaking things up in your current situation and moving to a future you may not see right now. ​

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Neutralize the Barriers (CHAPTER 4)

11/14/2022

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Neutralize The Barriers (Chapter 4)
This article is the fifth in a series describing the process of a successful transition. If you are in the last third of your life and thinking about ending your current career or selling your successful business, but not sure what you’re going to do or how you’re going to do it, this series will guide your thinking and perhaps give you your best next step/s. If you have been reading the 4 previous posts in this series you have had a brief overview of the 5 Chapters for making your next chapter your best chapter and learned how to let go of the past, see the present clearly, and chart a course for the future. You may read the previous four posts HERE if you missed them and would like to start at the beginning.
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​In this chapter we will explore ways to neutralize the inevitable blocks and barriers that are bound to arise as you make this significant shift.

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Chart the course (Chapter 3)

10/4/2022

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Chart The Course
This article is the fourth in a series describing the process of a successful transition as you rewrite your life story. If you are in the last third of your life and thinking about ending your current career or selling your successful business, but not sure what you’re going to, this series will guide your thinking and perhaps give you your best next step/s. You will learn how to let go of the past, see the present clearly, chart a course for the future, neutralize whatever is standing in the way, and create a sustainable structure for making your next chapter your best chapter.
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HERE if you missed them and would like to start at the beginning.



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Assess Current Reality (Chapter 2)

8/25/2022

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Assess Your Current Realty Chapter 2
“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift, which is why we call it the present.”
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In my Mine the Past post, I introduced the first of the five-chapter process for living your best chapter. Mining the Past is where you uncover those golden nuggets to help you build a sturdy, stable bridge from the past to the present and into the future. And that brings us to the second step - Assessing Current Reality (AKA the present).

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Mine the Past (Chapter One)

7/11/2022

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My last post described the 5 Chapters that help people in transition make the next chapter their best chapter. This is the first of a five-part series to describe those chapters and perhaps help you along the way if you are considering shaking things up in your current situation and moving to a future you can’t see right now. 

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Instead of Retirement, How About Rewirement?

5/9/2022

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Instead of Retirement, How About *Rewirement?
*If you have an impatient clicking finger, please do read down to Chapter Four. That’s where the magic happens!!

If you haven’t heard from me in a while, it’s because I have been having a blast helping clients who are in major transitions go from where they are to where they would rather be. Some are retiring and others are hitting the pause button to shape-shift into a new career/role. In both cases we are co-creating a plan and process for them to make their next chapter their best chapter.

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Endurance Playbook

3/24/2021

 
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1  |  Remember Who You Are: 
You were born for this moment. Leadership is hard—but you can do hard. You’ve been through challenging times before and you’ve always come out stronger on the other side.

  • What is the core strength that got me through other tough times?
  • Write that strength on 4 sticky notes and post them in places to remind you who you are.
2  |  Put Your Own Oxygen Mask on First: 
If you don’t take care of yourself, who will? Remember that you have the choice to be your own best friend or your own worst enemy every day. Do the basic things that keep you healthy and sane: drink plenty of water, eat healthy, exercise, sleep. Repeat.

  • How can I be my own best friend today?
  • Choose one thing to do today that is caring for yourself and your wellbeing and do it, starting with number 3 below.
      
3  |  Center Yourself When You Are Afraid or Anxious:
Fear is a natural response to continued uncertainty, chaos, and a sense of being out of control. The best thing you can do to center yourself is to take 5 slow deep breaths in this rhythm: inhale to the count of 3, pause to the count of 3, then do a complete, forceful exhalation to the count of 6. Done regularly (hourly) this breathing exercise will literally change your body chemistry and begin to build your immune response.

  • What is the least expensive, least time consuming act of radical self-care I can do?
  • Take 5 deep breaths at least 5 times a day!

4  |  Make Gratitude a Practice:
Start every morning with gratitude. Don’t allow yourself to get out of bed until you have thought of one thing you’re grateful for. Before you go to sleep at night, think of 3 things that happened today that you are grateful for. If you can, think of different things so it doesn’t get boring. This simple little exercise has the power to change how you go through your day and settle you down for peaceful, relaxed, and much-needed sleep at night.

  • Would I rather be in fear/irritation/frustration (fill in the blank) today or operate from gratitude?
  • Email, call, or text someone and thank them for something you appreciate that they did or said.

5  |  When You’re Uncertain About the Future: Our world has been so topsy turvy and no “new normal” in sight, it’s easy to get in a tailspin worrying about the what if’s. When we live in worry, we are cheating ourselves out of mental clarity, presence, and above all, joy. Worry not only undermines our resilience, but our immune response as well.

  • What is one thing within my control that can give me certainty today—even if it’s tiny?
  •  a) Write down 5 accomplishments you’ve had in the past 5 days. b) Write down one thing you feel confident you can accomplish right now,.. I know I can call 1 client and ask for a referral…that I can work out before going to work.

6  |  Prevent Overwhelm by Creating Routine:
When you’re feeling overwhelmed it helps to simplify your life. The more choices and decisions you have to make, the messier it feels.

  • What can you I do to reduce the number of decisions I have to make?
  • Establish a morning routine. Morning Routine: Gratitude practice, take 5 deep breaths , meditate, move your body, prioritize your to do list…

7  |  Think, don’t Act:
When things feel frantic, it’s even more important to focus on the horizon. Take 5 deep breaths. Connect with your values, your vision, your purpose. And only then take action.

  • What are my top 5 values? What is my 3 year vision? What is my real purpose in life…  
  • Write/type your top 5 Values and your 3 year Vision down and make 2 copies. Put one on your desk and one on your nightstand to help you to remember to live your values every day and to give you a long term vision to focus on.

8  |  Indecision is Making a Decision:
There’s always less stress on the other side of a decision. Not deciding is probably costing you more anguish than making a decision you fear. So make a decision!

  • What’s one thing I’m procrastinating on, or that I want to do but am afraid to?
  • Use the 10/10/10 (created by Suzy Welch) for tough decisions. For each of your choices, imagine you just took action. Then write down how you would feel about each decision—in 10 minutes, in 10 months, and in 10 years. Make the decision. Then take one baby step…

9  |  Limit Input Toxicity:
The news is literally designed to scare you—because you keep watching and they get paid. And your email inbox is other people’s To Do list. Limit your media intake to once a day and check email only at 4 intervals during the day. Save the rest of your time for consuming healthy input and improving your healthy output.

  • What advice would I give my best friend if I felt they were increasing their stress through toxic media overload?
  • Take your own advice. Make a declaration to close friends and family and ask them to be your accountability partners.

10  |  Take the Long View:
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This too shall pass. We all have to work on present challenges, and yet it’s wise to begin to plan ahead. There’s always a new normal after a crisis. Begin to plan ahead for exceptional client service.
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  • What I you create now, so that I am ready to support my existing clients and to create new clients, once the crisis is over?
  • Write down one idea that your clients will absolutely love in 6-12 months. 
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    Rebecca Bradley is a Master Certified ICF Coach and founder of Partnership Coaching, Inc. She began coaching individuals and teams to be successful in business over thirty-two years ago. 

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